Wedding Invite Wording

Wedding Invite Wording

RSVP Cards You can personalize how you ask for replies, but remember to keep the wording consistent with the invitation. For example, “the favor or a reply” typically matches the invitation wording “the honor of your presence.” For less formal invitation wording, such as “request the pleasure of your,” the RSVP wording would typically be “Kindly reply by” or “Kindly respond by.” To determine the RSVP by date, a good rule of thumb is to allow guests half the time between receiving the invitations and the date of the wedding. If you send your invitations eight weeks in advance of your wedding, set the reply by date 4 weeks from the wedding. Minted’s Design Associates are happy to answer any questions or suggest appropriate wording.
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Wedding Invite Wording

From elegant and refined affairs to modern ceremonies with more casual atmospheres, these handy wedding invitation wording samples will show you how to clearly communicate the details of your big day while still staying true to the style and tone of the celebration. But no matter what you have planned, there are a few things that should always be included in your wedding invitation wording-the names of the bride and groom, the names of the hosts and the date, time and location of the ceremony and reception. And most importantly, make sure that your personality shines through with your wedding invitation wording. It’s always better to say what feels right to you, even if it doesn’t completely tie in with traditional wording etiquette, than to have contrived and stuffy wedding correspondence.
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Wedding Invite Wording

You can personalize how you ask for replies, but remember to keep the wording consistent with the invitation. For example, “the favor or a reply” typically matches the invitation wording “the honor of your presence.” For less formal invitation wording, such as “request the pleasure of your,” the RSVP wording would typically be “Kindly reply by” or “Kindly respond by.”
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Wedding Invite Wording

Remember: especially if you're having a nontraditional wedding, your nontraditional wedding invitations wording needs to focus on minimizing confusion… because you're going to be maximizing disorientation. I vote for straightforward wording, with maybe one little piece of flair tossed in. Your wedding might confuse more traditional guests — don't let your invitation wording be confusing too!
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Wedding Invite Wording

“With gratitude and joy, the Smith(bride’s last name) and Jones(groom’s last name) families invite you to celebrate the marriage of Emily Jeanette & Benjamin Joel on Saturday, July xx, 2015, at 4 pm, Community Church in Smalltown, Oregon. Reception to follow at Village Church, Smalltown, Oregon.” We loved starting with “with gratitude and joy”. We also loved how we chose to say: “The Smith and Jones families invite you”. I know it’s traditional, but I just didn’t love the idea of it being clear who is paying or who is paying the most in the invitation. Our parents all chipped in and so did we, and they all chipped in what they could (which varied, but was equally meaningful). Also, my parents are divorced and re-partnered, but in the re-partnering everyone kept their last names. That is a heck of a lot of last names to include on an invitation. Also, the way my parents’ marriages and my relationships with my stepparents work, my stepmom really should be named, but my stepdad less so (and wouldn’t have wanted to be), but I can’t name my dad and stepmom and then just my mom and not my stepdad… (any kids of divorced parents want to give an amen here?! and my parental units all really get along, so we’re pretty lucky). SO- Having “With gratitude and joy, the Smith and Jones families invite you” feels so perfect. My stepmom and stepdad are both included in the wider “Smith family”, even with different last names (as are my stepsiblings, who have an entirely different last name!). My fiance and I are also included in our families! We didn’t say “of their children” because we are also inviting, and our siblings are part of it, etc… I really didn’t expect wedding invite wording to be such a THING! But, I love our solution. Emily
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Wedding Invite Wording

Choosing the right wording for your invitation suite can be tricky, but the process doesn’t need to be stressful. The most important thing to remember is that the wording should reflect the overall style of your special day. Below are a few simple rules of thumb that will get you headed in the right direction. The anatomy of an invitation. Rules of thumb. Host Names The word “and” in between two names traditionally implies that those people are married. Names of unmarried hosts or guests should be stacked. Women who are widowed should be addressed according to their late husband’s name, with “Mrs.” as the title (i.e., Mrs. George Brown). The phrase “request the honor of your presence” is typically reserved for a church or place of worship. You are welcome to spell it as either “honor” or “honour”. Just make sure you match it on your reply card with “favor” or “favour.” The Details For the wedding suite, try not to use abbreviations. Traditionally, middle names, street information, and state names are spelled out. If you do choose to list the date or any other information in a more casual manner, be consistent across all pieces of the invitation suite. The wedding invitation is not the place to mention registry information. This information is typically communicated by word of mouth or included with bridal shower invitations. Minted’s FREE Wedding Websites provide a wonderful opportunity for couples wanting to share registry details directly with their guests. Post Ceremony If the wedding ceremony and reception are being hosted in the same location, there is no need for a reception card. At the bottom of the invitation, you can simply state “Reception to follow” or “Dinner and dancing to follow”.
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Wedding Invite Wording

After you find the perfect wedding invitations to convey all the details of your special day, it is then time to turn your attention toward the wording. Here at Wedding Paper Divas, we are well aware of all the rigid etiquette guidelines that must be followed when making wedding invitations, and keeping these strict stationery rules in order can definitely be a challenging and time consuming task. So to make the writing process a little less strenuous, we’ve provided a few examples of wedding invitation wording that will surely help you out along the way.
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So, my boyfriend and I are hosting, we chose a casual invite with a bit of a party feeling to it to reflect the atmosphere we hope to have at the actual wedding & reception. And it's just the invite, no inserts or rsvp cards – the invites direct guests to a wedding website. But now am I struggling just to get the ADDRESS wording right. It seems so formal to address envelopes to Mr. and Mrs. Jones. Is it ok to use just first & last names, such as Jeremy and Melissa Jones and leave off the Mr./Mrs./Ms. titles altogether? My concern is that the more formal makes me a little uncomfortable and seems too fancy considering how casual the invitations are, but I also don't want to bypass all traditions and rules of etiquette so that I come off as flippant or tacky. Suggestions, please!!
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The invitation suite. Wording for additional pieces in the wedding invitation suite varies widely. Couples should take their style, ceremony, and budget into consideration. Here are a few examples of standard wording for popular additional pieces. Feel free to use these examples as a starting point and change, edit, or rearrange the different lines to reflect your wedding’s unique character.
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I mean, come up with wording that makes you and your partner happy, and causes minimal family stress. Because for whatever reason, family (being family) sometimes uses wedding invitation wording as a flashpoint to unpack allll the family drama.
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I didn’t use this wording, but I’ve gotten a few invites to family weddings where this wording was used (bride’s parents only on the host line). It wasn’t seen as throwing shade, because in their social scene, traditional weddings were the norm. Everyone expected that only the bride’s family would be on the hosting line (and also assumed the bride’s family was paying for the wedding). So I think this depends on the social context, and is a know your crowd kind of thing.
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We were inspired by a previous post on APW about wording. We had to get a little creative because we’d been legally married a year before the big wedding. Here’s our wording: Because you believed in them, celebrated with them, loved and encouraged them, Please join Another Meg and Smarty Pants as they celebrate the beginning of their adventures together at on *Bring your dancing shoes* Dinner and dancing immediately following ceremony And then we included an info card with more details and a map of the park where the whole shebang happened.